We went to a wedding for a friend of ours and they did not have a photog so we took some shots for them… I can tell you that we will NEVER do a wedding. I give all you wedding photogs all the credit in the world.
My wife and I have been married for almost 10 years, we got married before we were 21. Most of our friends were still in college and stuff when we got married. Now within the last few years all of our friends have met someone and fallen in love and got married as well.
Here is the part that really saddens me… we both started to think we did something wrong or smelt funny or something. ALL of our friends stopped calling us and hanging out with us. Well come to find out every couple in our core group except one is either getting a divorce, or going through one or talking about it. I am talking about 4 or 5 couples and a few on the edge. It hurts to see families go through this, I do not see what goes on behind closed doors but I ask myself why? What is the deal? I can not imagine life without my best friend. I know for several our friends their spouse has been there best friend as well for a long time. I know no one is perfect but I feel so bad for these families, I can not imagine what is going through their heads and hearts. We have been saying lots and lots of prayers for all of you. I don’t know what else to say… and to let them know that we always have an open door and I promise we will not take sides.
